Getting dumped is a good reason to make your ex jealous so she’ll want you back again. There’s no way for me to know what happened, but maybe she crushed your heart and now you want to put a little of that back at her. What about making her realize once again that you’re an attractive guy and she shouldn’t take you for granted? Annoy her, however the breakup occurred, by leveraging a little bit of jealousy in your favor.
Make Ex Girlfriend Jealous Tip #1 – Understanding Women and Jealousy
A woman’s greatest fear is the underpinnings of her relationships, that is the first thing to realize when you’re seeking to enlist the aid of jealousy. Any observer of women will tell you that their greatest fear is losing your adoration, your love, even if they’ve just dumped you. You’ve perhaps noted the vain bastard who is careless about women’s hearts, yet always has them panting. You and I, the decent sorts who care, can’t seem to get a nod from a woman.
So, your first move is to make no move at all – in her direction. Now, don’t act like a jerk; employ some finesse.
Make Ex Girlfriend Jealous Tip #2 – Make Her Feel Like She’s Missing Out
I know you want to tell her that she’s a worm you wouldn’t care to step on, that’s just not going to work. Why make her mad? That’s all words like that will do. And you’ll come off as a creep. Neither of those are your goal.
What you need to do is make sure you leave a vacuum in her life. Don’t involve yourself in her life at all. Display a lot of disinterest should she make an attempt to reach out. Be very cool. But don’t push it to the point of nastiness. While this is happening, you need to become the bon vivant again, having a wonderful time. And be sure everyone sees you, or better yet, have them join in.
Once your ex hears about your fun times like when she first met you, boredom, if nothing else, will start her to wondering what she may be missing. She’ll probably start thinking about why she liked you in this first place and maybe wondering why she let a fun guy like you go.
Make Ex Girlfriend Jealous Tip #3 – Turn Up the Heat
Now you’re working. You’re being somewhat stand-offish when it comes to her. And, you’re having lots of fun with your terrific friends. Now it’s time to get down to brass tacks. She probably wants to be part of your circle again. This is where you start playing the jealousy card – hard.
The next push is to start being seen with other women. Okay, you want your ex back, so don’t date seriously. But, it will be a mild eyebrow-raiser if you take another girl out to lunch or on a small shopping trip.
Sooner or later word will get back to your ex and she’ll start wondering. Your ex will start feeling some anxiety as she wonders if she’s losing you altogether and whether or not she should make a move to get you back.
You’ve done the jealousy thing well enough to make her wonder long and hard about you. She’s probably figuring out how to get you back. All of a sudden, you have the upper hand, you get to make the choice. She took you for granted once. Now it’s up to you to decide which way things will go now. Remember, it pays to be nice. No matter if you decide to take her back or not, don’t be a creep about it. Don’t be a bad guy, she’s got feelings, too. Besides, wouldn’t you rather be remembered as a nice guy instead of a creep?